More from the Manhattan Declaration. Yep, still ranting about gay marriage. Remember, I had warned you that the closest thing to an argument in their whole section on gay marriage just repeatedly hammers the old, standard "marriage is about making babies" line? This bit has me scratching my head:
". . . loving sexual intercourse in which the spouses become one flesh, not in some merely metaphorical sense, but by fulfilling together the behavioral conditions of procreation. That is why in the Christian tradition, and historically in Western law, consummated marriages are not dissoluble or annullable on the ground of infertility, even though the nature of the marital relationship is shaped and structured by its intrinsic orientation to the great good of procreation."
Um . . . what? Read that again. They specifically mention "procreation" as the basis of the marriage, yet they immediately point out that it's just downright stupid to disolve a marriage on the grounds that the couple cannot procreate! How can they not see the blatant inconsistency here?
The only thing I can think of is that they could be claiming that, specifically, a penis being inserted into a vagina is the basis of marriage. That it is . . . some kind of procreation "ritual," not the actual reproduction, that matters. What material difference there is, specifically and in terms of procreation, between the sex of an infertile couple and the sex of homosexual partners, well, they don't elaborate. Either reproduction is the basis, or it is not. The whole premise of this inane argument is ridiculous - would they lobby for a couple, one male, one female, who are asexual, with no sexual desire at all, but who wish to adopt, to be forbidden to marry? Why, then . . . horror of horrors, not a single penis or vagina in use
at all!
". . . it could be asserted with equal validity for polyamorous partnerships, polygamous households, even adult brothers, sisters, or brothers and sisters living in incestuous relationships. Should these, as a matter of equality or civil rights, be recognized as lawful marriages, and would they have no effects on other relationships?"
Honestly? Easy answer. Yes, they should be, and no, they wouldn't.
"The truth is that marriage is not something abstract or neutral that the law may legitimately define and re-define to please those who are powerful and influential."
Um, isn't that exactly what you, the Christian, heterosexual majority, are doing? This is exactly what has been done throughout all of marriage's history. It has been redefined to mean a union of choice and mutual love, instead of one arranged or forced. It has been redefined to include interracial couples. It has been redefined, starting with polygyny, to mean a union of one man and only one woman, then again to mean a union of one man and many, many women,and back again. If redefining it again will make the institution worse off, then make that case. The Manhattan Declaration, though, has NOT done this; it has simply tried to scare people with emotionally-charged, prejudice-exploiting language.
". . . it is the duty of the law to recognize and support [marriage] for the sake of justice and the common good. If it fails to do so, genuine social harms follow. First, the religious liberty of those for whom this is a matter of conscience is jeopardized."
Oh, I see. The government must recognize and uphold your religious opinion, even if it's discriminatory to others and clearly excludes other people's religious opinions, or you will consider your own religious freedoms to be violated. It should be obvious that there are religious persons who disagree with your traditional view of marriage; what of their religious freedom? By this tortured logic, isn't
their religious freedom being violated when the government specifically enforces
your view of marriage?
"Second, the rights of parents are abused as family life and sex education programs in schools are used to teach children that an enlightened understanding recognizes as "marriages" sexual partnerships that many parents believe are intrinsically non-marital and immoral."
Yes, there is a role in public education in promoting a healthy, humanistic societal ethic, or, at the very least, mildly discouraging blatant, outright prejudice. If there is a rational reason for declaring gay men and women to be immoral people, then make that case. Sorry, but until then, you are, by definition, a bigot, and you cannot use the public schools to disseminate your bigotry.
"Third, the common good of civil society is damaged when the law itself, in its critical pedagogical function, becomes a tool for eroding a sound understanding of marriage on which the flourishing of the marriage culture in any society vitally depends."
Not to get too intellectually elitist, but blah, blah, blah. There's been no attempt, at all, to make this case so far. No case that marriage should be intrinsically between one man and one woman, and no specifics of the "damage" of the terrible, terrible gay marriage. Only repeated, vague statements about how society will somehow be irreparably harmed if certain people are allowed to get married.
"And so it is out of love (not "animus") and prudent concern for the common good (not "prejudice"), that we pledge to labor ceaselessly to preserve the legal definition of marriage as the union of one man and one woman and to rebuild the marriage culture."
Your position would have more credibility if you went after divorce instead of gay marriage, given how much more often divorces occur than gay marriages would occur. Also, given that Jesus never explicitly condemned homosexuality, but he did specifically state that Christians should not allow divorce, it seems to be the big J's higher priority, too.
"The Bible teaches us that marriage is a central part of God's creation covenant."
Firstly, no, it doesn't, as I mentioned in the last installment of this review, the Bible gives highest honors to men like Jesus and Paul, who never touch a woman at all, and both of them explicitly stated that all Christians should refrain from marriage if they possibly can. Secondly, the Bible also teaches that marriage, that central part of God's creation covenant, is between one man and as many women as he can afford.
"Indeed, the union of husband and wife mirrors the bond between Christ and his church."
Yes, the Bible often compares "husband and wife" to "Christ and his church." Um . . . isn't the church expressly subservient to Jesus Christ in all things? So . . . Christian marriage is unambiguously sexist. Nice. Topping it off with a great note, there.
Next time; their final point: Religious freedom. Yes, after all this, they actually end the Declaration with a supposed oath to defend religious freedom. We'll see how that turns out.
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